I'm a teenage girl and I'm a little curious as to the best way to let a guy know you're interested in going that far. Inversely, how can you tell when a guy is interested in going that far? Please don't attempt to educate me about sexual safety and not having it at my age, I don't have time for that. Please just answer the question, or move on.How to let a teenage guy know you're interested in sex?
99% of guys already have sex on their mind. You just have to show you're interested. Hang out with them along. Go with whatever move they make on you. When you feel comfortable, take it further.How to let a teenage guy know you're interested in sex?
What's the point of asking only for an answer you want to hear, hun? that's silly. You don't really want an answer, you want affirmation that what you're doing is okay.
Well it's not okay. You're risking an awful lot by becoming sexually active. Are you prepared to have a child? People still get pregnant when they're practicing 'safe sex' - condoms break, barrier methods have failure rates, and the Pill doesn't work for everyone (I know a bunch of women who conceived while on the Pill). Will he stick around and raise your child together, do you think? Also, do you know if he has any STDs or if he's been exposed to any? Even with a condom you can still get things like herpes. Is that a risk you want to take? Is having sex with this guy really worth it? Probably not. Chances are he isn't going to stick around, and you will have become another notch on his bedpost (and he on yours). Sound like a good idea to you?
If you aren't mature enough to know how to broach the topic with him, what makes you think you're ready to have sex in the first place? Obviously you are not. You don't even know how to talk to him.
I'm a teenage guy and there are several small things you can do without thinking too much about it.
1. Talk to him on his own. (not like a friend would, but like a gf would)
2. If you hug him, sometimes hold on for an extra second or two to add emphasize (bad at spelling.
3. ';Accidentally'; touch him a few times. ( I don't mean like his d*ck or anything but like his thigh...etc.)
4. You could of course tell him, but that's no subtle.
Hope that helped.
Well normally a guy if interested will make a move or talk to you about it, when i first had sex as a teenager we both felt the same way at the same time and it just happend, you can flirt around and act like you jokin about it but if he takes it seriouse well then there ya go he is interested
To let a teen guy know you want to have s3x with him, walk up to him and say ';I want to have s3x with you';.
To know whether he is interested in going that far, see above.
Do NOT grab his cr0tch or touch him in any way until you know you are welcome to do so. That is assault.
Cheers :-)
Have a talk with him and tell him that if he's ready, you're want to have sex. I really don't think leading him on is the best way, because then he won't know how far you want to go. Just confront him about it straight up.
Get a private place. Make out with him longer than you usually do and he will know you want more than just to make out with him. Maybe casually touch him down there but don't run into it, let things flow a bit and then do it.
Good luck!
Um pull his pants his pants off and if he's turned on, he won't stop you. If he declines, then you got your answer. Or just go, ';do you wanna have sex?'; and then pull out the condom.
If you are breathing then the guy is already thinking about it. If he is breathing then he is willing. I would think even the ones not breath would be stiff. %26lt;%26lt;%26lt; Yes that was a bad joke.
Just talk to him about it. If he feels uncomfortable then don't do it. You are both too young in my opinion but to each is own.
1. come right out and say it. honesty works (usually)
2. if it's a teenage guy, odds are he's currently picturing you naked
Option 1) Invite him over for a movie. Start kissing and let one thing lead to another.
Option 2) Ask him up front if he wants to screw.
';Lol... Teen aged boys are walking erections.'; Way to not objectify males. So I suppose that if someone said ';Asian drivers are rolling accidents,'; that would be OK with you? Nice hypocrisy...
Probably the most redundant question on here. If he's a straight, male, able-bodied teen, he's gagging for it 24/7!!
I dont know a single guy that wouldn't go that far haha. I think the best way to let him know is just straight up tell him or kind of lead him on..?
Lol... Teen aged boys are walking erections. If you don't know if he wants it you're not what he wants.
Why not just do it the old fashioned way- by asking?
Make a comment about sex. Say that you got some condoms at the store and would he like to test them with you? Ask if he's wearing underwear. If he is, ask to see them. If he isn't, ask if you can check. If you're already dating, chances are that he's already thinking of sex. He might get antsy and not want to do it. Don't push him. If he does want to though, make sure that you got protection and that you both do some healthy experimentation. Hey, what feels nice? Oh, that's not so great, try this. Sex takes practice.
Yeah, and having sex as a teenager is fine. Just do it because you want to do it, and do it safely. Most guys are going to be interested in sex, trust me on this. At your age though, make sure you direct him around. Teenage boys get so worked up at the thought of sex with a real girl (OMG) that they'll go off too quickly. If you want to get off too, you're going to have to a little coaching. His only exposure to sex, if he's a virgin, is probably porn. Porn doesn't teach boys anything about how real women work, but it does teach them how to go off as quickly as possible.
Just be really really really obvious. Boys will think that you're teasing unless you make it really clear. Some will get totally weirded out and run away. Boys are funny like that, they really don't like women who want them and are out to get what they want.
Whatever, just have fun and enjoy yourself. And the people saying that you need to molest him? Ignore that. Words are your friend. No need to be creepy and pushy. That's exactly NOT what you need to be doing.
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