You don't have to be dressed entirely in black. Black slacks, white button up collared shirt and black tie would be appropriate.What to wear at a funeral for a 15 year old teenage boy?
Black is a traditional color for mourning, but it largely affects women's choices in clothing, since men's dress/formal wear tends to be rather uniform. Dress nicely, like you were going to church, keeping in mind that it is a somber occassion. Where nice dress pants or khakis and a collared shirt (doesn't need to be black, but keep it a traditional color like blue or white- no pink here). It's usually best to wear a simple tie but not necessary.
Remember, you are mostly showing your respect for the deceased by dressing nicely. Beyond that, you just want to not wear anything that will call too much attention to yourself, since no one really wants to be concentrating on who is wearing what at a funeral.
If you have a dark suit, that is always appropriate. If not, don't worry. Dress shirt, a tie, slacks, and nice shoes. Dark overall is appropriate, though not absolutely necessary (though you want to avoid bright/cheery colors, since that wouldn't fit the occasion). The important part is to be respectful. Remember, your outfit will not be the biggest concern of day. Your presence and condolences will speak louder that a fashion faux pas.
You don't have to be strict on yourself about being either black or white unless your friend or your friends family would like you to. Don't change your style either. If you've been wearing tshirts all along then just wear a black-ish one if you can find.
Depending on the weather, if it's cold, wear pants/trousers that are plain and not fancy. Hot? Knee-height pants.
Last funeral I went to, most teenages there wore longs jeans and no one thought it was wrong.
Your shoes can be what you wear normally. Just probably plain sneakers are good.
As long as the colour isn't bright, it's fine.
Tip: Plain stuff always work out the best.
Try avoiding red though.
You want to avoid bright colors, casual clothes (like beach wear). So long dark pants (no jeans), dark shoes and a neutral shirt is fine. White, light blue, tan are ok...long sleeve is best. As mentioned above, a sports jacket would be good especially if you are a 15 year old who looks older. You don't want to stand out with your clothing, you want to be.........neutral.
Being there for your friend is wonderful. In the coming weeks and months he'll need his friends....boys don't really talk about when they are upset, but you can watch him for signs of depression. If he wants to talk, truly listen, don't try to brush it off.
White shirt, black pants, and black dress shoes if you have them would be fine. You don't want to over do the black. A sports jacket if you have one would be nice also.
Just make sure its neat and tidy, what you have so far sounds good. Clean shoes are a must, skate shoes look nice with slacks, or dress shoes!
Black shirt and pants is fine or a white shirt, and black dress shoes.
Anything dark and plainer is better.
you don't have to wear all black to funerals anymore
Black, grey is good, black....shoes...
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