Monday, December 28, 2009

How many unmarried pregnant teenage daughters can you have and still be considered as having ';family values';?

Obviously an single black woman with three unmarried pregnant teenage daughters would not be considered as having ';family values.';





But a white married woman with one unmarried pregnant teenage daughter has tons of ';family values';.





How can you tell if someone has ';family values'; without looking at their family?How many unmarried pregnant teenage daughters can you have and still be considered as having ';family values';?
Parents can teach their children right from wrong, however when they are older and decide to what they want, it has absolutely nothing to do with what they were taught. I don't care what race or religion you are.How many unmarried pregnant teenage daughters can you have and still be considered as having ';family values';?
';Family values'; is a term to describe how a person thinks a family should be. It doesn't necessarily mean that that is how their family is. A black woman with three unwed pregnant daughters and a white woman with one unwed pregnant daughter can have family values, it just means that their offspring does not share their mother's family values.





Try asking them.
okay look, kids everywhere have sex, it's human nature, they experiment, sometimes accidents happen, I don't think ';family values'; have a damn thing to do with it. Familys and parents try to instill morals in their children, sometimes not all get through...sex isn't dirty, it's natural....okay, lets see the differences, single, 3 prego teenage daughters, obviously big mistakes made and no role model, married, prominent, family orientated woman with passion and drive......I CALL IT A FLUKE!!! MCCAIN-PALIN 08!!!





You can't. Just cause she's pregnant doesn't mean a thing. Look at everything else, this woman is a blessing to us all!
Having family values does not mean you are going to have a perfect family! Having family values means you encourage your family to be moral and to strive for higher standards. It doesn't mean that we dictate or force are family to do right we teach them the best we can and we give them the freedom to make choices either good or bad.
Define family values. That is such a vague term. As a Christian I hear it used in so many different conotations. Does ';Famil;y Values'; mean one values their family? Does ';family values'; mean everyone in their family is perfect? Does ';Family Values'; mean that they teach their children what they think is right? What does it mean?
You can still be a good parent with good values and have kids who make mistakes and go against your teachings. Especially if they are over the age of 15 and in today's society of sex, drugs and rock and roll.
A black woman that works hard in a job that doesn't pay her a living wage and supports her children alone. A woman that cares for them and feeds them no matter how she goes without, has more ';family values'; than most people!
LIES.


Family values,


don't exist.
Uh...doesn't a teenage girl being pregnant speak more to HER family values, and not necessarily those of her parent/s?
It would take about 16 daughters.
Good question, you should Email it to CNN....And direct it to Palin and McCain
just because a daughter messes up...does not mean her mother and father did not have family values..she just chose not to listen. and really...what does age have to do with it anyway? what it should come down to is if you are emotionally and financially ready to carry and raise a child..not age...I know some 30 year olds who are awful mothers, and yet I had my first child at 19..I was married, with a job and enough income to be able to stay home once my daughter was born. I now have my second child, and all the women around me who are the parents of my daughter's friends are the same age as my mother, and all I hear about is how its so hard for them to handle it...they only have one..I have two, and I handle it just fine....20 years ago...it was abnormal to hear of a 30 year old having her first child, 20 years ago the norm was 20-26 for a first child, but in most cases? 18 and 19. now today...18 and 19 year olds are considered teenage pregnancies...I realize Palin's daughter is 17...but thats not the question, the question is...is she emotionally stable to raise a child? are her and her fiance emotionally ready for marriage, and a baby? are they financially ready? not age..age is just a number, there are 30 year olds who act like 2 year olds, and my 7 year old in most cases is more mature than the next 20 year old......especially the 20 year olds I see today, we have this one single friend...he's 29, and his girlfriend is 23, and when she and her friends come over..I feel so old compared to them..and I look at them and wonder....';was I ever that annoyingly childish?'; and then I think back to the fact that my child would have been 4..and I say ';nope'; at they're age...they wouldn't even be able to handle a full time job..and that seems to be the norm around people these days..its true what they say....30s are the new 20s...and okay..so she is 17 and not married... I can name you right now 5 people in they're late 20s mid to late 30s who are pregnant without being married....why is that okay for them? and not someone else?


so again..when it comes to child rearing, and marriage..it has to do with your maturity level, not age.





as for the difference between a single black mom with three kids, who are all pregnant without husbands....and the single white mom with a teenage daughter who is pregnant and not married..my question is this..





are they working to provide for they're children? which ones are on welfare? are they maybe not married but at least still with the father of the child? which ones are financially responsible and which are not? which are emotionally ready? and which are not? I look at Palin...and I look at her daughter, and I see a daughter with her fiance beside her, and her family supporting her, that is family values...helping your children when they've taken a wrong turn..without doing the fixing for them.





and as Barack Obama said..his own mother was an 18 year old when she was pregnant with him....family values? she married a terrorist and had a child by him, she chose a man who would leave 2 years later and never see his son....she then married another man..and as far as I know she did not stay married to him. Obama had a pastor for over 25 years who was racist and anti american...he considered him and uncle and the man even married Barack and his wife..yet when he began running for President he no longer wanted to be associated with said pastor, oh, okay, the last 25 years are just forgotten then. and when it comes to babies, Obama voted against a bill that would do away with partial-birth abortion, I can understand someone being for abortion, but not partial birth abortion. His excuse was that he didn't want it to overturn roe vs. wade, and was on the committee to rewrite the bill so that it protected roe vs. wade, while it also protected babies who were born alive but being left in a room alone to die, and he still voted against it, you can find the vote and the bill online for yourself. So when it comes to family values? Palin is the better.

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