Thursday, December 31, 2009

How to flirt with a teenage boy?

In a way to show him I like him? Lots of tips please!How to flirt with a teenage boy?
Be really nice to him. Smile. Laugh at his jokes. Play with your hair. Make eye contact but don't stare.How to flirt with a teenage boy?
If you do what Carrie says, he will know you like him. That is how to flirt. Once you flirt then he has some options.


Guys can tell when a girl likes them (believe it or not). When he knows you like him, he can do 5 things. Ask you out, Flirt back because he likes the attention and lead you on, Avoid you if he is not attracted, tell you or act like he just wants to be friends, or flirt back because he likes you too, but hasn't asked you out yet
how old r u? wtf





i dunno, get ya **** out. thatd get me on ya :D
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  • How meny phone conversations do teenage girls have per week?

    (one, two, three, four, five, six, seven phone conversations?How meny phone conversations do teenage girls have per week?
    Well, I am a girl and I have about 4-5 per week.





    Lol, random question.





    Hope I answered it okayy





    :)How meny phone conversations do teenage girls have per week?
    Nowadays, teenage girls don't really use the phone as often as they used to. Now, we use things like ichat, facebook and email to communicate instead of phones. We still call each other occasionally, but its texting mostly.
    maybe 6-7


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
    Maybe two or three. Mostly I im.
    5-6


    now i chat a lot or im

    If you had an unmarried teenage daughter, would you let her take birth control?

    I wouldn't b/c that is like telling her to go sleep around!!! I can't believe some parents do this. I would want my daughter to stay a virgin until after her wedding.If you had an unmarried teenage daughter, would you let her take birth control?
    Now a days girls are having sex earlier and earlier. If she is sexually active, then she should be on birth control. I know someone who has a 15 year old daughter that has had 4 abortions!!!!! I don't believe in abortion and imagine what trauma that is putting on her young body. I wouldn't be surprised if when she is old enough and ready to have a child, she might not be able to.If you had an unmarried teenage daughter, would you let her take birth control?
    Okay, seriously. IF SHE SAYS SHE IS DOING IT, SHE IS GOING TO KEEP DOING IT ANYWAY WHETHER YOU TELL HER TO OR NOT. get that in your head because it is the truth! After a discussion about your views and hers, let her know that you do not support it. But, safe sex is better than unsafe sex. Might as well make it safe.
    I agree with you plus birth control pills don't keep diseases away !








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    What kind of panties to teenage girls wear?

    I'm 14 and i just wanted to know. i'm a little curious and i'm not bi or lez or anything cause i'm a girl and i just wanted to know. say, if i was changing in the locker room, i wouldn't want someone to make fun of me.What kind of panties to teenage girls wear?
    wear bikini underwear (like i do) or hipsters, when u change in the locker room, but when u dont try a thong.... lol


    im gonna buy one, because i wanna try it =]What kind of panties to teenage girls wear?
    Although a few girls wear thongs i would not recommend them. I would recommend what is the most comfortable to you. For that is boy shorts or bikini. Don't be worried about crazy prints on them. Prints are cool and fun and your won't be made fun of for that. Don't sweat it nobody should should be staring at your undies any ways. Nobody really cares.
    At 14, just regular underwear (try solid colors).


    And yeah, only idiots are busy caring about other people's underwear.



    you are 14. so i wouldnt wear a thong just yet! (even though more girls will!) try wearing boy shorts. and when you turn 15 or 16 you can wear a thong.
    Thongs


    G-Strings


    and the ';Bikini'; kind sometimes


    :D
    Wal-mart 8 packs, normal and comfortable.
    Girl boxers :)


    They're really comfy and come in all sorts of funky patterns!



    Boy Shorts! :) i love them.


    There so comfy



    umm like girl boxers haha try a thong jkjk lol
    thongs..

    How do you get a teenage guy to open up?

    There this guy (he's almost 17 and im 15) he's obviously been upset lately. I just know it. You can see it from his eyes when you talk to him. Or when you read what ims he sends you. I try asking him about it and i really want to help him, but he completely denies it. typical for a guy i know but i really think i should help him.





    suggestions?How do you get a teenage guy to open up?
    Stop asking him what's wrong. Don't even hint that whatever is wrong bothers you. He'll talk soon enough. However, be careful. The last thing you want is a melodramatic dude that just drags you down. How do you get a teenage guy to open up?
    You know guys really do deal with stuff differently.





    Talking definitely makes girls feel better. Sometimes talking makes guys feel worse. Having stuff pried out of them makes them feel like less of a man - and then they'll definitely feel worse.





    If you want to help him, then help him in a way he's going to understand. Be friendly. Smile. Help him with practical stuff. Show you have faith in him and his ability to cope with the stuff life throws at him. For a guy, not asking what's wrong is the way you show faith. It's the guy code. His mates will be busy supporting him by carefully not asking him what's wrong.





    Nope, it makes little or no sense to me either - but that's cos I'm a girl. I truly never realized that asking a guy what's wrong was kicking him when he's down - but in guy talk that's just what it is ;-)





    The rules change a little if you're actually his girlfriend, but otherwise the friendliest and most helpful thing you can do is communicate your caring non-verbally.
    He's a teenage guy. So many of those...


    my cousin and I used to be gr8 friends when we were little.


    I called him up recently because he's one of my ONLY family and the convo is like this:





    Me: Hello ! It's your cousin!


    Cousin: *drawl* Oh hi.. I'm busy now watching a movie.


    Me: oh ok... Bye...


    Cousin: *quickly* OK Bye---





    And that was after years of not talking to him.... *sigh





    He's just depresed and I love nurturing people and making them feel happy but some people are hard to help unless they learn the lessons by themselves...





    All I can say is try doing some sports with him, heavy sports, get those adrenaline rushes going and when he is pooped he will be a bit softer to handle, then start with the compliments (NOT FAKE - GENUINE) and say you can't wait to see him again then quickly end the night with a sweet smile and say you hope he is very happy.

    What are good songs for teenage girls to learn?

    they are aged between 13 and 16 and really like Beyonce, Rihanna etc which are way too high for them vocally. Any ideas?What are good songs for teenage girls to learn?
    linkin park bleed it out


    any of lil waynes songs


    rock music


    heavy medal


    mysto and pizzi something like that umm somebodys watchin me


    50 cent


    all american rejecets


    flo rida


    soulja boy


    kanye west


    akon


    drake


    the fray


    chris brown


    day 26


    plies


    yeap all them songs are good for u dude hope ur career takes offWhat are good songs for teenage girls to learn?
    I'm 14 and i play songs on my guitar that are a bit too high for me, but it sounds all good if its an octave lower. Otherwise i sing music from bands like midnight youth, oasis, para more, hey monday, and james morrison. Also i would suggest music that has a good easy beat and not too fast. otherwise if you're singing too low it can sound kind of weird... Yeah, but beyonce would be fine on a lower octave.
    Try Beyonce and Rihanna SLOW songs,


    Example,


    Rihanna- Cry


    Rihanna-Umbrella(cinderella) ft Chris.B


    Beyonce-If I were a boy


    Beyonce-irreplaceble


    Beyonce- Independent Women (part 1)


    Rihanna-Hate that I love you


    Rihanna-We Ride (BEST ANSWER)


    Rihanna_Take a bow (BEST ANSWER)


    Rihana_umbrella
    If it is for a musical theatre piece, I would choose Biggest Blame Fool (adapted as a solo) fron ';Suessical'; I know where I've been'; from hairspray is good.





    If its a regular performance, I would consider Stevie Wonder (done in his octave), or something like that.
    try a song from MIA or estelle -come over, or something from mariah carey!





    **hope ive helped!
    Violet by Hole....YES. Every girl needs the power of Courtney Love and her in-your-face attitude.
    screemo!


    BREE BREE *****
    JoJo, Taylor Swift
    Taylor Swift is always good.

    What is better for my teenage girl, a maltipoo, a cavapoo, a morkie or any of these mixes?

    she is a very responsible girl and i know that she will be a good dog owner but we just cant decide which breed to get. We are planning on going to see the puppies and making sure that it is not a puppymill for those who are concerned. also our oldest child is 14 and loves animals. If you have any suggestions on other cute low grooming maintainance dogs feel free to tell me!What is better for my teenage girl, a maltipoo, a cavapoo, a morkie or any of these mixes?
    Well, to be technical, none of the dogs you mentioned are of any breed. They are mutts. If you are going to spend more than $50 for a dog, get a registered purebred. Please take the time to read about which ever dog you decide to get. Most people don't take the time and then become very disappointed in the dog and the care it requires. So many end up in shelters and euthanized that way.





    Now, why don't you let your daughter pick it out herself?What is better for my teenage girl, a maltipoo, a cavapoo, a morkie or any of these mixes?
    Any dog that is mixed with a long hair dog will not be low maintenance. But if you think that she is responsible enough a peekapoo is a great dog without a lot of health problems
    Here is a link to a great quiz that will help you find the perfect dog for you. Good luck, and kudos on going through a responsible breeder!
    None of these you mentioned are a breed...they are mixes. I would not get any of these mixes from a breeder.Anyone delibrately breeding and selling mixes is irresponsible.


    I would check out shelters and rescues and adopt a mix instead of lining the pockets of an irresponsible breeder. For the price you would be paying for one of these mixes you could get a real nice pet puppy, a purebred from a responsible breeder.
    Please stop with the cutie names. They are mutts, plain and simple.





    As a proud owner of two mutts (both Bichon Frise - Shih Tzu mixes) who came from reputable breeders, I can honestly say that this is the cross I prefer. They are very common and thus vets are typically aware of any health conditions they may have inherited from their respective breeds. I love my dogs very much, and they are both very healthy. You aren't doing a bad thing by getting a mutt, so please don't let anyone make you feel that way.





    That said, my dogs require a lot of grooming time as they tend to mat, so if you are going to have a problem with that, you should probably avoid them. All dogs that you have mentioned will have higher-end grooming requirements, as they all contain either poodle or yorkie genes. Since it is impossible to tell what genes your puppy has inherited until they hit adulthood (and even then it isn't sometimes clear), you are risking this requirement in any event. I would rethink your stance.





    *Guys and gals, not all mutts that come from breeders are sick and unhealthy. That statement is made in error. Both of my dogs came from very good breeders who made sure their puppies were going to good homes, and who are perfectly healthy. My male does have a luxating patella in his left knee, but it wasn't discovered until he was nearly 2. That's not uncommon amongst both the Bichon Frise and the Shih Tzu. It's low-grade and he's otherwise very healthy. My two have never been sick, with the exception of a problem with the female which was determined to just be her physical makeup. It isn't, nor was it ever, detrimental to her health. It's my dog, plain and simple.





    I have bred my two (before any of those problems arose) and all the puppies went to very good homes, to people who I am still in contact with! We touch base on a regular basis to make sure the little ones are doing well, and they are! I'm very happy that I bred them, but once was enough because I have neither the time nor the energy to deal with six little puppies running around my house (and yes, they were born and raised in my home, and never set foot outside until they were old enough to run!)





    Puppymillers don't only breed 'designer dogs' either. I know of one (who thankfully is going to be shut down) who has purebred dogs, as well. Backyard breeders are not puppymills, either. The intentions of the breeder have to be taken into account. I bred my dogs because they are wonderful dogs with great personalities, and all of their puppies turned out very much like their parents, with the best of both mom and dad. I have had some people tell me that this was the best puppy they have EVER had in their lives, and one lady even came back to find out if I was going to breed again because her father loved her little guy so much he was interested in obtaining a puppy from us.





    I did not breed them for money. In fact, when the puppies were gone to their new homes, I did a calculation and discovered that I had actually lost money with them. Between vet visits (they were checked upon birth, and again for their first shots), food for them, extra food for mom, a prolapsed rectum in one little gal (poor thing. . .she was so sore and irritated. The ointment for her was expensive), and a 14-hour drive to deliver one to his new home, we lost a good deal of money. And I was perfectly fine with that. It was never for profit. So please consider that the motives of some 'backyard breeders' are good. I know of some breeders of purebreds who aren't that 'reputable', so it doesn't apply just to breeders of mutts.*





    *I also get tired of this 'ethical' crap. ALL PUREBREDS WERE ONCE INBRED MUTTS! Most of the dog breeds that are in existence today were 'line bred' to get the desired characteristics in the puppies. That term sounds innocent enough, but what it means is that two dogs mated, and then the puppy with the traits they wanted to this new 'breed' was bred back to either their mother or their father. And then the second generation puppies were then bred back to the grandmother or the grandfather. This is NOT ethical. We already know it causes physical deformities and mental problems in humans, and it does the same for animals. Why do you think genetic diseases are common in purebreds? Yes, any reputable breeder will spend the thousands of dollars needed to do a genetic test of their dogs, and will not breed any that comes back as carriers of any disease or disorder, but the fact remains that it began as an unethical action on the part of humans. We just can't seem to keep our noses out of anything. Arrogance is epidemic in our species, isn't it?*
    As everyone else has mentioned to you already, these are mixes..not purebred anything..so I will skip that lecture. Adopt from a shelter, rescue group..save a life.


    None of the kinds of dogs you mentioned are low grooming maintenance dogs..as a matter of fact the combinations you are asking about will need to be professionally groomed approximately every 4-6 weeks..with daily combing (not just brushing) at home. If you are looking for low maintenance in the grooming department, try something along a shorter haired breed or mix. Something to be aware of though..longer haired dogs need to see the groomer more often because they will get matted because not all the hair they are shedding falls off easily it gets trapped in the outer guard hairs.. shorter haired breeds shed more because they replace their hair more often.. Just something to be aware of.


    Also be aware it is a long term commitment..and if she's a teenager more than likely she will be moving out before too long..what will happen with the dog then?





    Good luck in finding a new family pet..
    any one intentionally breeding mixed breed puppies IS a Puppy Miller.. -not all puppy mills are disgusting places but ALL breed for one reason and one reason only -%26gt; PROFIT .. with no regard to genetics..


    this is obviously the case with anyone intentionally breeding crosses.. if either parent were good quality they would be breeding PUREBREDS!





    if the parents do not have show records to prove their worth as breeding animals and vet certificates to show they were checked for hips, eyes, ear problems.... the breeder is a puppy miller...





    ok having said that... yorkies were bred to kill rodents.. they are natural diggers and mouth agressive..


    poodles are a traditional hunting dog - very smart they require alot of attention/training to keep their brains stimulated...


    ALL THE DOGS YOU MENTIONED are HIGH MAINTAINACE GROOMING - all are non-shedding they require daily brushing or their hair will form painful mats. and require trips to the groomer ever 6-8 weeks





    really if you want a good dog for your teen go to your local shelter.. 2-3 times and look at the dogs there.. sometimes they get non-shedding dogs..but remember all dogs require maintainance...





    shelter staff will be more honest about their dogs than somebody trying to get $ from you.. shelter staff want the dogs to get good homes..
    If your gonna buy a disigner breed dont and go adopt a MUTT that could get put to sleep.
    I recommend getting a mix at a shelter... maltipoos, cavapoos, and morkies are high priced mixes, the same you can buy from any shelter for MUCH less. I'm glad you are going to the ';breeder'; to visit and check to make sure your getting a healthy puppy, but I assure you the mixes they sell are way over priced. No breeder that is responsible would create mixes for pay. They charge the same for a ';designer'; mutt as they do purebred dogs, just so you are aware. If you go to try to resell your dog for some reason that you can't keep it down the line, you will lose hundreds if not all the money your purchased the dog for I assure you. With a purebred dog you can at least sell your dog for most of what you paid for it. Especially if it's papered. Best of luck! :-)
    if you are buying these from a ';breeder'; it is either a puppy mill or a back yard breeder. No reputable breeder breeds mutt puppies!





    Check out www.petfinder.com and look at the small breeds in your area to see whats available for adoption.





    By the way, all of the mixed breeds you mentioned are not ';low maintenence'; for grooming.. all of those have long hair that will need brushed and groomed.





    maltipoo is a maltese/poodle mix


    cavapoo is a king charles cavalier/poodle mix


    morkie is a maltese/yorkie
    If you're going to get any of those mixed breeds, adopt from a shelter. They are worth no more that $100, and anyone who tries to sell you a mutt for more than $100 is scamming you out of your money.
    Our kids are both young teens and we bought them 2 bichon frise - poodle mixes. They are GREAT with the kids, and they aren't too tiny so that they might get hurt easily. They both weigh about 18-20 lbs. Our kids both have asthma and our doctor recommended this breed because they have no dander and they don't shed at all.
    Any of those mixes will be either from a puppy mill or an irresponsible breeder. Why not adopt a dog from your local shelter?





    Here, use this chart to judge the breeder you buy from.


    http://www.pbrc.net/breeding3.html
    well, those which you listed aren't actual breeds


    they are all mixed breeds


    the problem with mixing breeds is that you have no way of knowing how the dog will turn out;


    for example: you could mix a poodle with a cocker (the designer breed known as a ';cockapoo';) with the hopes that the puppies end up taking good qualities of both breeds (shedless from the poodle and easy to train from the cocker), but in all honesties there is no way to know that the puppies wouldn't take bad qualities from both the dogs (leaving you with the ear infections of a cocker and the stubbornness of a poodle).


    A responsible breeder would never mix two different breeds together; no matter how knowledgable the person seems if you buy this dog from a breeder you will either be buying from a puppy mill or a backyard breeder, not someone of true knowledge.





    Now I have nothing against mixed breeds of dogs, but rather than support ignorant breeding why not adopt a mix breed dog from the humane society? They pay for vaccinations as well as spay/neuter costs. Plus you can get the same kind of dogs for under $100 from the shelter (money goes towards the care of other homeless dogs), rather than paying more for a dog that you have to vaccinate and spay/neuter out of your own pocket when the ignorant breeder pockets all the cash.


    Right now there are 162,662 dogs and puppies up for adoption on petfinder, good dogs that are only up for adoption because there aren't enough homes for them all, most of whom will be included in the 4.5 million animals euthanized this year because there aren't enough homes for them all. Why aren't there enough homes for them all? Because people breed them irresponsibly. Many designer breeds and mixed breeds are available on petfinder, for example there are 175 cockapoo's on petfinder right now.





    If you are looking for a dog that does not require alot of grooming maitence, I'd suggest something short-haired because most of what you've meantioned above (multipoo, cavapoo, morkie) basically any poodle, toy poodle, yorkie, or cavalier mix will have longer finer hair so they will all require expensive haircuts and to be brushed out daily to avoid matting. Cute short-haired dogs include pugs, beagles, dachshunds, chihuahuas, etc...





    remember, save a life, think adoption first


    here is a link to the list of breeds available on petfinder.com, run a search in your area:


    http://www.petfinder.com/breeds/Dog


    remember if you decide on an akc recongized pure-breed dog, there are akc rescue organizations for show-quality pure breed dogs which are alot cheeper than any breeder and you can get almost any kind of puppy this way


    here is a list of breeds recongized by akc, if it is not on this breed list then it's just a mixed breed, also known as a mutt, it can be a good dog but it's not worth more than the adoption fee at the shelter:


    http://www.akc.org/breeds/breeds_a.cfm
    THESE ARE NOT BREEDS. They are mutts, given fancy names to attract good intentioned people like you and take your money for a dog with no legitamate pedigree. A dog is also not a trend. You have two options: a shelter or a REAL breeder. There are many lovely toy breeds out there! Leave these hustlers and frauds and their con-game fake breeds alone!
    Get a purebred puppy from a registered breeder - a maltese or a cavalier king charles are great pets. By buying a mixed bred you are encouraging, aiding %26amp; abetting puppy mills and BYB's
    I recently bought my teenage daughter a dog and she sounds very much like your daughter; responsible and kind. I live in a small sized house with little garden space so i got a cavapoo. she is perfect and we have no problems. we opted to buy an older dog, almost a year old because a puppy requires so much time and commitment and we were both to busy to undertake that responsibility. I would also reccomend a shih poo if you are looking for a mix. There is nothing wrong with a mixed dog as long as you know its healthy and a genuine mix. good luck searching and dont let people put you off 'mutts' theyr happy and strong dogs
    None of the dogs that you mentioned are actually breeds, they are cross-breeds or mutts. Also, none of them are low-maintenance on grooming, either, so you are on the wrong track here. I would suggest first going to www.dogbreedinfo.com and taking their short quiz. Be completely honest about what you do and don't want in a dog.


    Then go to petfinder.com and find your daughter's new best friend and save a life at the same time. And PLEASE, DO spay or neuter.
    Please tell me a little more of what you are looking for in your next companion. How active is your lifestyle, do you have other children, do you have a fenced in yard, what are your plans for training and ultimately what is your goal for your new puppy( companion/show/work) Small mutt dogs are in right now, but I might consider a GSD as a protector. My daughter's dog is the only chaperon she needs. *grin*
    by buying any of these dogs u r supporting the UNETHICAL breeding practices of backyard breeders. it isnt good. paying hundreds of dollars for a mutt that is worth no more than 50 dollars is just as bad as buying from a puppymill. y not go to a reputable breeder and get a dog worth the money or go to the shelter and find the SAME mix that someone took there because they bought the dog and then realized it wasnt what they wanted. those dogs arent breeds they r mixes. aka mutts
    these dogs are not real dog breeds they are mixes given fancy names so that people can sell them for more money try getting a dog from a shelter or a rescue society at rescues you can get pure breed dogs which are less likely to have problems





    these dogs may have fancy names but remember they are mixes so don't act like you are paying for a pure breed when in fact you are paying for a mix





    Now today we just got another Golden Retriever from the same rescue society that we got are first they are the sweetest dogs along with labs but they shed a lot





    so don't get one of these dogs consider adopting a dog from a shelter or a rescue but I really like what you put about the puppy mills





    GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR DOG AND DON'T FORGET TO SPAY AND NUTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    First DO check at your local shelters, there are LOTS of maltipoos, cavapoos etc that people surrender all the time, many of them are less than 6 months old and what better way to show responsibility to a teen than to save a ';throw away'; dog from a death sentence. I know it always seems easier when you can see the parents to get a general idea of what the dog will look/act like but you need to pick a dog based on it's personality VS the parents.


    Second ALL breeds started as ';mutts';. A 100 years ago Doberman Pinschers started as a mix between Danes, Rotties, Manchester Terriers as well as others, but now they are a popular registered breed. Less than 30 years ago Cane Corsos were not a considered a breed, just a ';type'; of dog. They will be AKC registered July 1 2008.Just because it's not ';purebred'; does not make it ';wrong bred';. Have you ever heard of hybred vigor? Look it up... So I guess my point is don't judge a book by it's cover, you might be surprised at what's inside.


    Good Luck with your search
    Okay, you say you want a dog for low cost grooming, but yet you will go out and buy a mixed breed dog from a breeder that does not care for their dogs, only the money they can make off the dogs, same thing as a puppy mill, they are taking advantage of the dog and of the potential buyers.





    these dogs are mutts, pure and simple, you can go to the shelter get a very nice dog, give it a second chance at a good life with a loving home, or call your local rescue dog club in your area, but please these names you listed are even starting to be breeds except in the minds of irresponsible breeders that make up the names to make them sound more buy-able, better for them, worse for you..





    make sure you research the breed, the real breed you would like to get, make sure it fits your lifestyle and the best thing for the dog you want to get,....take your time and make sure





    good luck...by the way Miniature Schnauzers makes great pets, companions, guard dogs, and will love you to death a 100 times over...low maintenance, needs grooming once a month, has fur not hair, does not shed, house-trains easy, and loves to play....and loves it humans.





    trust me they are a noble little dog..





    Min.Schnauzer breeder 14 yrs...they are great with any age, kids, teens, adults, elderly....
    If you buy any of those mixes, you will be buying from a puppymill or backyard breeder. Those are the only two groups that breed mixed breed on purpose. It's irresponsible and unethical. There are no reputable breeders that are breeding mixed breed dogs. You should do more research, or you will be breaking the 14 year old's heart when you buy her a sick mixed breed dog.
    Of those 3 choices none are low maintenance as far as grooming goes. All will need brushing on a daily basis and will need to be groomed by a professional at least once a month. Also why would would want to get a mixed breed for such a high price. Of the 3 I'd choose a PUREBRED Cavalier King Charles. Cavaliers cost just about the same as the mixed breed Cavapoo and have a better temperament that any of those dogs mixed with poodle. Poodle's are yappy little dogs and some can have aggression issues. As far as not getting one of these designer breeds from a puppy mill all will come from either that or a Back yard breeder. No reputable, responsible ';Show'; breeder would ever breed two dogs together of different breeds.
    If you are considering a poo mix because you believe that it will not shed please be aware that a poo mix can inherrit the coat gene from the side which does shed. In other words there is NO guarantee that it will not shed. If you want to get a dog with the least amount of possible future expenditures please consider getting one from a breeder who is concerned about the health and breeding behind the dogs in the pedigree. It has been my experience that those most concerned with the genetic make up of the dogs they breed are those who breed pure bred dogs. Many good breeders do the health testing recommended by their breed clubs in an attempt to try and eliminate inherrited problems. These breeders, in general, raise pure bred dogs. In other words, there is absolutley no guarentee that a mixed breed will not inherrit a problem from either side. So my best advise to you is to choose one of the breeds which are in the mixes that you are considering and get it from a good breeder whom you can visit and who will tell you all about the parents. In fact it is best to see the parents yourself and be able to know better what the dog you get will grow to be like. Many better breeders do not breed for money but for the pride they take in producing dogs of the best disposition, health and appearance that they can. Again it has been my experience that in general more breeders who breed mixes are more concerned about making a sale rather than the qualities of what they are selling. I have heard many Labradoodle purchasers tell me that their dogs not only shed but grew to the size of a Labrador when they were told the puppy would not be over 35 LBs as an adult. If you are worried about genetic diversity look at the pedigree and see if the same dogs are repeated. Having a diverse pedigree can be either a good thing or not. That decision is up to you, but simply because a dog is pure bred does not mean that it is inbred. You will be safer getting a dog from a dog enthusiast who cares about their breed, is willing to back up their puppy, rehome it if nessisary, be there to give advise etc. Dog enthusiast often show but at the very least they become known in their breeds and they are the individuals most likely to care about; not only their reputations, but the puppies they produce.
    maltipoos.. they are easy to train, cute as heck and smart as a whip. as for low grooming, well you can always shave it. just kidding, if you want a low maintenance for fur and grooming.. get a chihauhua.. if you want a good dog, get a maltipoo.. i want one soo much myself but we have a dog and a cat and that is too much.
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    I am 13 and my sister and father dont EVER get along. She never does what i say or what he says. I am really depressed about it because it happens almost everyday. There are huge fights and yelling and screaming and crying.


    I am quite embarrassed by asking this question because i dont usually complain.


    Please dont criticise.What can I do about teenage depression?
    You are not responsible for your father and sister fighting, although I have a feeling that maybe she is missing somebody that is important to her. If you talk to her like her boss, instead of her sister, she will probably resent the fact that she's lost her sister, and I think she needs a sister right now more than ever....What can I do about teenage depression?
    Well, first of all, please understand that it's not your job to ';fix'; your sister or to parent her. That's your dad's job and if he's relying on you to do that, he's being very unfair.





    Now, go talk to your school's counselor. If he/she won't listen, talk to a friend's mom whom you can trust. And if the friend's mom won't listen, make an appointment with your doctor and talk to him/her.





    Please don't be embarassed. And please don't think it's your job to ';fix'; this situation with your family.
    Well sweety u really can't do anything about your sister having fights with your dad..I'm taking a shot in the dark here but i am guessing that your sister is older than u and she is going through the rebel years of her life..since u didn't give a reason for the fighting...i am guessing that your dad is yelling at her for what she is doing with her life right now...staying out all night...not doing chores..hanging with wrong crowd...if this is the case...then don't feel depressed..beleave it or not it's normal..might not seem that way to u right now...but it is..many households where there are more then one girl growing up..u have the day and night effect...meaning u and your sister are different from each other as day and night..i assume u are the one that listens..does pretty good in school..does chores and is always there when it comes to family...and your sister is oppisit of u...if i am right with the little info that u gave..then don't worry sweety this is normal
    tough spot.


    i'm sad a lot of the time too. i'm 15 and a freshman in high school and everything just weighs down on me. but problems at home are difficult. i don't really have any advice to help you, wish i did though. i hope everything turns out alright.
    Look the best thing you can do with this problem is going to a psychology he or she will take your problem and i think that you can get better with this situation. Hope it results for you. Bye

    How do you make the coca cola necklace from confessions of a teenage drama queen?

    i want to make it the same way with detailed steps because i think the way her chain hang with the bottle caps was so cool and i want a necklace that is equal cool.How do you make the coca cola necklace from confessions of a teenage drama queen?
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    First, that was the closet picture I could find of something like the one she has.


    What you want to do it to get a few toilet chains (the actual necklace part is called a toilet chain),


    and then make sure it fits around your neck exactly where you want it to hang.


    If it's too long then just cut a couple links off or whatever.


    Now you want three bottle caps that are cute and ones you like..


    Really..the actual necklace around your neck is only going to be attached to the top two bottle caps (you will probably need some hot glue for this project).


    First glue the two top bottle caps in place..


    and cut a small piece to glue inbetween the top two bottle caps (like in the picture).


    Now cut four equal chains,


    and connect two of them to each of the top bottle caps and connect both sets of chains to the bottom on.


    For your last step..cut two equal chains (a little bit long..to your liking) and hang them where ever you'd like off of each of the two top caps..


    and then cut two equal chains, and another one, that is a tiny bit longer,


    and glue them to the bottom of the bottom cap.


    (short,long,short)





    I also suggest filling the entire back of the bottle cap with hot glue, and pushing something flat on before it dries so the back of the bottle cap is flat..and it will ensure that the chains won't come loose and break off.





    Oh also...if you don't know how to use a hot glue gun...get someone to help you out.





    Hope I helped :)

    What are your views on teenage pregnancy?

    I had my first child when i was 14, and i was just wondering what you thought about teenage pregnancy?What are your views on teenage pregnancy?
    If the baby is wanted/ loved, and the parents have support and love each other, I personally have no objections. This is the norm in many cultures, age is no guarantee to being a good parent, so good luck,What are your views on teenage pregnancy?
    CONTEXT: We know little about young people's views of the effectiveness of interventions to reduce the frequency of teenage pregnancy. OBJECTIVE: To compare the views of young people and professionals about ways to reduce the frequency of teenage pregnancy. DESIGN: Comparison of consensus emerging from adult and teenagers' workshop discussions and subsequent modified two-round Delphi questionnaires for each subject group. SETTING: North Staffordshire community. PARTICIPANTS: Fifty-six professionals from health, education, social care, youth and community and other sectors and 55 young people. MAIN OUTCOME MEASURES: Views with which at least 70% of participants agreed. RESULTS: Young people emphasised the importance of interventions being young person-centred, whereas professionals stressed that re-organisation of sexual health and education services was key. Young people suggested more creative ways of communicating health and education messages than did professionals. Both groups advocated peer education and recognised the need for developing help and services for young men. Both suggested that staff should be educated to be more sensitive in relating to young people. Professionals and young people advocated the locating of sexual health services for teenagers in youth settings. CONCLUSION: In the main, professionals favoured dedicated young people's services whilst young people emphasised the need for young person-centred services. Those working in the health and education sectors should seek and listen to young people's views and preferences when planning and providing sexual health education and services.






    i think its obviously not something that should be encouraged and 14 i think is to young to be having sex but once someone is pregnant there is not point waffling on about how young they are. its about then providing a supportive and safe environment for that teenager to have a baby. There is nothing to say that a teenager wont be a good mother i think it just takes a lot more work and having supportive family and friends is essential. Age doesnt change how much you will love your child.
    Depends on what part of teen pregnancy. If a teenager goes out and TRIES to get pregnant, then she is a very selfish person.


    But those who don't get pregnant on purpose, that's completely different. Did they use protection or were they ignorant about it and didn't use any protection at all.





    Every situation is different, and no one has to right to judge a person simply because they are young and pregnant. You need to know the whole story before you can judge someone.
    Anyone who can not work to feed, clothe and pay for rent, utilities, heat, water, gas, phone, car insurance, health insurance, life insurance, savings and provide all the other financial necessities AND the emotional needs that children require are grossly irresponsible and selfish.





    If one can not care for one's self, one has no business reproducing.





    Also, there are too many forms of reliable birth control.
    i don't want to offend you, but where im from teenage pregnancy is not that common compared to other sates. i personally don't agree with it as i feel you should wait until your older in a secure relationship, married and enough money- independent and mature.





    however its your choice and you obviously chose to have your first child early in life, i wish you all my luck for the future :)
    It depends, as long as the child is being properly cared for and has both parents caring and loving for it (the parents being responsible) then I don't so it as a problem.


    But if the child was not properly being cared for and had irepsonsible parents then I wouldn't approve of it.
    i think you should be at least 16. come on, at 14 do you really want to have a baby with you all the time? I think back to when I was 14. I didn't even have sex! But if I did get pregnant, I would have given it up because I honestly wouldn't have know what to do or have the patients for a baby! and I wouldn't want to hastle my parents w/ the extra costs of my baby and helping me with it all the time. Im 18 now and pregnant with my first. Ive had a misscarriage when I was 17. I have a job and place to live and steady inviroment to raise a child. Sure I am gonig to be a single mom but I will love my baby no matter what and give him or her the best life i can!
    I think it should not be judged. I am 15yrs and 2 months and i had my son on Tuesday, hes healthy and im doing a good job, he feeds well and latches properly and he is well taken care of and has a lot of love. His father is the proudest dad in the world and is so helpful. My son is blessed to have us and we are blessed to have him. I would like to donate breast milk for moms that have HIV and premature babies as soon as i know he is perfect. I have more than enough milk and have no problem expressing. Im doing a damn good job for someone that has never been around babies under a year old. He has hardly cried at all and is happy. I love him to bits. I thank God for my miracle.
    I think that at that age you are young and nieve and not fully ready for children, and most of the responsibility does tent to fall on their parents, but i dont think that they are bad parents just because they are young, just needing more guidance i guess. i am 21 though and will still need guidance so who knows!
    well, accidents happen...it depends on the girl, i was 17 when i had my first and i wouldnt change it for anything in the world. of course i would hope my daughter doesnt repeat my actions, simply because it was tough, but it worked out for me. i was lucky to have a man who stuck around and married me and we have been together now 7 yrs and are having our 2nd baby in march (this time planned lol)





    as long as the girl is responsible and mature its not the end of the world.
    I know ur going to give me a thumbs down for this but, It rlly annoys me. Its just 1 more mouth that needs to be fed, so 1 more person going on welfare, 1 more person my taxes hafta pay for. I'm not saying this is every young mom cuz sum do have supportive parents that help them thru it, but that's my own personal opinion. I know I sure wasn't having sex at 14.
    Not something I encourage however as a 16 year old mom myself I did ok. When I look back now that my son is 26,married , and just gave me my first grand baby I must have been doing something right..Its a hard road as a single mom and not everyone should try it but it worked for me.
    my feelings are that you better do everything possible to take care of the baby,i think so many teens think having a baby is fun and so on. as long as its a determined teen and not a lazy one then good luck to them! i was also a young mom. i had my first when i was 19
    I dont think its a good idea but i had my son at barely 16 %26amp; we did fine, I even continued to graduate h.s. so its not the end of the world. I feel like my son pushed me harder to suceed in life. 2 more classes %26amp; i will be in nursing school. %26amp; now i have 3 kids with one on the way, my kids are amazingly well behaved thanks to their young parents!
    it shouldn't happen because when you're that young you aren't ready for children and you have your whole life ahead of you. you had the rest of high school and college and now you can't enjoy that because you have to worry about a child.
    I think that you should avoid it.


    I feel that its better for you and the child if your older.


    To be honest i think its a bit silly to get pregnant when your a teenager as it's just going to be so hard to get through school etc.



    It is not something that I feel a teen should be involved with but I do respect the young girls that step up and take responsibility for their actions. My mom had me when she was 15 and she did a great job.
    Something that should be avoided but dealt with maturely and responsibly once it has occured. It will always be a problem in our society but with safe sex and abstinence, good parenting and good parents, it should lessen.






    Honestly, no offense, I think it's sad. There is so much help out there if young girls would just take the time to access it. Accidents happen, I know that, but there are alot of accidents that could be avoided.
    i think people should wait until theyre at least 21....but thats just me, and everyone else is different...i would never have had a child in my teens, but like i said, thats just me...
    being a teen and thinking about getting pregnant myself i say it all depends if ur able to support the child or not if not then its not good if you can then i dont see a problem with it as long as ur mature enough
    Not much really i just think that its a shame it happened so early but i believe they are just as good a parent as older ones.
    17 and over fine you can work support your self.


    no offense but at 14 your still a child your self



    It's not something one hope should hope to accomplish.
    i was thinking about it and i was so happy for you becasue i am having a baby too. i love to have sex with my boyfriend and i love to get naked with him.

    Is it weird for a teenage girl to wear athletic shorts at the mall?

    I mean, I know a lot of girls my age (sixteen) like to get all dolled up at the mall, wearing tight jeans or super short shorts...but I'd rather be comfortable and wear my mesh athletic shorts. Would you think it's weird if your teenage girl friends wore them to the mall?Is it weird for a teenage girl to wear athletic shorts at the mall?
    it depends what u like to wear- everybody has a different style.. if u like to wear your athletic shorts thts fine... but if u feel like u dont fit and wanna change there r plenty of other comfortble shorts tht are also stylish too. Anyway, Lifes too short to worry about what other people think of you !!Is it weird for a teenage girl to wear athletic shorts at the mall?
    No why would you get dressed up for a store???? I doubt the store cares what you look like its not like their going to stop you at the door and tell you that you cant come in because your not dressed up enough. I would say just dont worry about what you wear heck I dont care what I wear at the mall...(well only when I'm with my bf) but yeah so just wear what you feel comfortable in.








    and I'm 15 so I'm not like the married adult who just doesnt care anymore haha
    No, theres nothing wrong with that. In fact, it's way better. It's fine to get dolled up, but teenagers dont need to be out in public(especially with people who arent their own age) in super skimpy clothing, and shorts that could pass as booty shorts. There are a lot of older men at the mall, and willingly or not they will probably look. Some might even act on it. And children.





    Plus, it's so much easier to try on clothes and shop when you are wearing comfortable things. =)





    Good for you.
    no that totally o.k.! first thing try not to focus on what other people will think. and second athletic shorts and sweat pants are much better choices for the mall because you'll be doing a lot of walking and most likely changing in and out of clothes and elastic waist pants/short are the easiest thing to get in and out of. so go for it and do not stress over what someone would think. I mean just look around the mall i bet there's dozens of other people wearing them too.
    Athletic shorts are soo comfortable. I wear mine wherever. It all depends how you feel that day. If you have someone to impress or you feel like getting dolled up then just pull on some tight jeans, but if you're just wanting to have some fun then it's better to be comfortable =]
    don't worrie about what others think unless u can;t help it, don't give in to peer-pressure if mesh shorts are what ur comfy in that go ahead and wear them (just think they must feel so uncomfortable with there shorts riding up them just so that guys can c there legs -.- big deal)
    Nah, I wear athletic shorts a lot. Just wear what you're comfortable in. Besides, it's not like you're trying to impress anyone, right? =)
    i'm wearing mine right now %26amp; i'll go anywhere in them. if they're really cute and comfy it usually says ';yes i'm fit and hawt'; and fit it really hawt right now or @ least for some it is lol
    You will always looks weird to someone. Wear what you like and what makes you comfortable.
    I wear athletic shorts all the time. In fact, I'm wearing them right now. It's not weird, it's just what you like to wear.
    no i wear them all the time athletic shorts are comfortable
    Yes, I would.





    (Seeing as I'm the only guy answering this question)
    me and my friends wear our nike shorts everywere. lol, we dont care what others think of us. :)

    What is appropriate for a teenage girl to wear to someone's graduation?

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    Do you agree that it is the parents fault for when their teenage son or daughter is a snobby person?

    I feel like it is because parents are supposed instill morals and values in their kids and the ones that act like that obviously lack that. I think those kids that are snobby are spoiled and one day will regret having that attitude when they find that they are not a very likable person.Do you agree that it is the parents fault for when their teenage son or daughter is a snobby person?
    Maybe not in all cases, but most of the time, I'd say yes, the son/daughter is acting on what he/she has learned at home.





    My son was called a snob when he was in 8th grade, and he came home and asked me what it meant. I told him, and he said he hadn't been acting that way. I told him if he was friendly to everybody, nobody had the right to call him that.





    Sometimes very shy people come across as snobby, so that's something they need to work on.





    When teenagers get to college or out in the working world, they may find that nobody cares what they did in high school. Cheerleader? Big deal. Sports star? So why are you selling insurance now?





    They may find that their glory days were in high school, while they've got another 60-70 years to survive in the real world.Do you agree that it is the parents fault for when their teenage son or daughter is a snobby person?
    Being a ';snob'; is a funny thing. To one person, you might be a ';snob'; and to another person you might be an angel.





    I don't blame the parents. The parents are just teaching the kids what they know. If the parents work hard, have a big house, nice cars and are able to give their children material possessions, that's doesn't make them bad people.





    Everyone values and morals are different. I don't know you, but I'm sure we don't value things the same. For all I know, you could be teaching your children morals I don't agree with. Who says you are raising your children to be like saints. You might, but it doesn't mean it's true in the eyes of others.





    Everyone can be labeled a ';snob'; at one point in their life. I was labeled a ';snob'; by a girl I knew in college. I wasn't though. I was just your average, middle class college girl. But, she grew up poor. So, by comparison, I was a snob in her eyes. But, I had lots of other friends, just like me and they never had issues with the way I was.





    So calling someone a ';snob'; is subjective. Just like saying parents should raise their kids to be ';moral'; Well, define moral and the actions, behaviors surrounding it. I'm sure what you deem ';moral';, just might be ';immoral'; to a lot of other people.
    Yes. Parents are the root of most social problems that kids have. (Yes, I am a parent.) If they are a brat, it's because someone let them behave that way or they are copying what they see as being acceptable at home.
    Part of growing up is separating your own identity from your parents. Unfortunately, the only way for most typical kids to do this is to take on some truly obnoxious habits.





    We live in a college town. I'm often mildly horrified by the conversations I hear the kids having amongst themselves - after all, I'm very aware of the fact that my 3 y.o. will be a teenager in less than a decade and, of course, painfully aware of how foolish and idiotic the kids sound.





    Thing is, I doubt they carry on like that when their parents - or adults that they know - are present. It's a means of attaching ourselves to our friends, trying out new personalities and the like.





    Of course, it's also true that I hear adults carrying on in fashions that are truly unacceptable - swearing in public, yapping on cell phones on the bus, cutting off someone in traffic and so on.





    So some kids may be going through a lamentable but necessary phase ... and some may very well have parents who fail to live up to the standards of common courtesy.
    I think they have a part in it
    Yes I would agree. As a father of four it is the responsability of the Parents/Parent to instill high values and moral behavior. Teaching children respect,kindness,unselfishness and behavior towards others is an obligation. Some parents in todays society are spoiling their children and believe materialistic items is the cure for them loving them. I have always believed if you look at a person then you are also seeing their parents and what they have learned from them. It is a sad thing however a reality. Teaching responsability I believe is an essential part in nurturing your children to grow and respect others.
    They will only regret it if they ever realize they are like that and if they care if other people don't like them.





    I think most of the time it is the parents fault but some kids will be who they want to be regardless of the parents many attempts. I don't know anyone like that though all the teens I know that are snobby are spoiled or the parents are very snobby people. Most of the time they received too much without having to work for it.
    i completely agree.


    The sad part is, most parents are in denial to being shitty parents.





    my mom taught me to be independent. People on here get mad at me for pointing out their flaws. They wouldn't get mad if I weren't partially correct.








    Bokie318 is absolutely correct. Don't boo her just cuz u're in denial about being a horrible parent.
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  • What does everyone think of teenage girls these days? Personally I think there is something wrong with them.?

    I am asking this in regard to that group of teenage girls who beat another teenage girl and posted it on youtube? What is wrong with young girls these days.What does everyone think of teenage girls these days? Personally I think there is something wrong with them.?
    I understand what you mean. My teenage years weren't even that long ago, and yet I feel a lot has changed in that short time. Of course, many people would say- ';What about the boys?'; Is it less surprising coming from them? I think that society is degenerating full stop. The fact that we are noticing more of this behaviour coming from girls can be attributed to what I mentioned earlier- We (to some point) expected this sort of behaviour from boys, but not girls. There is still the thinking that girls should be more delicate than boys. It is a form of sexism, yet this type of thing should not be condoned, regardless of who is perpetrating it. Also, the internet revolution is pushing in our face more than it ever has been before. The fighting is not a new thing, although it may be happening more often. It is simply that we see more of it- as it is now available to everyone through mediums such as youtube, posting it around the globe for everyone to see.What does everyone think of teenage girls these days? Personally I think there is something wrong with them.?
    To assume that the beatings perpetrated by six teenage girls are indicative of the mindset of all teenage girls is silly. It's also very unkind.





    If I had seen six teenage girls working as volunteers in a hospital, would that entitle me to believe that all teenage girls are angels? No, that would be silly too.





    Teenage girls are a very large group of people, and like all large groups, they exhibit the full range of human character, from bad to good to just minding their own business.





    Over-generalization is something we all need to watch out for when we think.





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    I don't think teenage girls are much different than they have been for years. Some things have changed. As an answerer above pointed out, more media coverage--news cameras seem to be everywhere these days.


    But also, something else has changed, the overall standards of what is acceptable and tolerable. There is a very bad philosophy potently active currently. It pushes the idea that it is wrong to discriminate too far, to the point that it's wrong to say ANYTHING is wrong. That's an extreme. Some things ARE wrong. Hence, society is afraid of being intolerant, the latest ';deadly sin';. Hence everyone is more inclined to ';look the other way,'; so to speak.


    We all have good and bad in us, and when bad behavior is downplayed, those wanting to be bad, to do bad things, feel less restraint from going ahead.
    The media dumbing down society... I think this causes young girls to try and imitate and be like the people they see on scripted reality TV shows.





    TV is really the catalyst of dumbing down America. It's really gotten stupid. I'm in 10th grade, and some of the stuff on there is totally ridiculous, how can it even be entertaining in the least? So much scripted drama, it sucks. :(





    Some of the things on the internet influence young girls, but really... I dont' think that girls now acted the way they did even 10 years ago.
    This probably doesnt have much to do with the question but I do see, more teenage girls becoming more and more materialistic, less careing for others and more all for themselves. I'm 19 but i have trouble dealing with it. When I look back at my mums days, everyone was make love not war, such an awesome loving atmosphere, why are teens so self absorbing now?? anyone agree?
    It's the same thing that's wrong with many teenage boys, and people in general for that matter today: bad parenting and a lack of morals in today's society. Especially the second one, since the most perfect parents in the world can still raise a bad kid, because everybody has a mind of their own.
    Hmm.. Maybe tte parents are just alittle younger than in the past. And getting younger. When I was a teen just afew years back, I literally raised myself. My mom was hardly ever around. All I had was my friends and my Brother.. who was younger than me of course.. Parents of these teens have given them to much freedom, and take no responsibility. I understand that it is hard to raise a teen and to even control a lot.. but, parents are parents and they need to take control. Also, a great influence in them is music. Have you heard the reggaeton songs lately? I'm not trying to hate on music, but.. this is crazy. I have plenty of friends who have always love clubbing and.. the clubs around my area play nothing but his music.. It implies sex. You got 12-13, 14 year olds.. maybe even younger girls out there already thinking about this and.. dman.. I just hope it doesn't go that far..
    They are getting more media coverage of their usual actions.





    Teenage girls have always been vicious as hell.





    edit: You must be young.....you have to be young. Teenage girls have always, always been violent and have some of the sharpest tongues. This is nothing new at all.





    Go research the Salem Witch Trials. See how that went down because some young girls felt like watching people die and eat up some attention.
    There are more female bullies because women are now allowed to be aggressive as well as passive. Feminine aggression is an unfortunate by product of equality.


    There have always been bullies. Had there been an internet, they would have posted their brutality on You Tube in the 80's, 60's, 50's, etc.
    Only some of them. What about the victim? She was a teenage girl too, if they are all so awful, why do you care what happened to her?





    Yes there are lots of young people who are sick in the head and acting in a really disgusting way. But it is a minority, still.





    Don't generalise.
    lol I think this is a complaint that has gone on for thousands of years....every older generation complaints about the next.


    Cant you just see an old tribes man fussing at the young teens...';why do you feel the need to cook your food! We didn't have fire when I was young! sigh life was simpler back then...you are such a spoiled generation!';
    I have such a list of what is wrong with a lot of young people now days. I think welfare plays a big role. People don't have time to be with their kids much. They have to work, ect. It's sad that kids can be so stupid.
    all teenagers are suffering somewhat from the insidious effects of living in McCluhan's global village, and having the media for both mother and dad. I don't think girls anymore so than boys, though.
    i blame society... haha, no, wait, i think im serious this time,


    i think i do blame society, like the media and stuff... the media have a whole bunch of mindless followers wrapped around their little evil finger.
    If you are interested there is a book called '; queen bees and wannabes'; The film mean girls is based on it.





    There is another book called '; big fat bIttch'; that describes why girls can be so nasty towards each other.
    I have two teenage girls myself so obviously, I don't think they're all bad. They are just as shocked at the beating of the girl in Florida as nearly everybody else is.
    I think it could be caused by pollution in the air and in the foods we eat. It has affected proper mental development of young kids.
    There isn't anything 'wrong' with teenage girls that isn't also 'wrong' with teenage boys. ';Spoiled brats'; says it all.
    girls are hormonal and catty and mean...every girl is but most handle it...those girls apparently cant.
    There are a few girls. Not all girls. Hello??????? McFly??
    I think the problem lies within the government and the psychological community. Did you know that if a group of teen girls attacks an adult or one teen girl attacks her mother or grandmother, the adults are supposed to just allow this to take place and not defend themselves or they can be prosecuted for defending themselves against a minor. This happened to a very good friend of mine, after her daughter repeatedly assaulted her on many occassions. They are expected to call the police, start their childs life out with a criminal record, and pay fines and pay for court ordered counseling for their teen, while they themselves are hounded and monitored by social services under the suspicion of child abuse, what parent in their right mind would willingly go for this. If a parent has problems with a teen, they can't put them in check by putting the fear of God in them and whipping their butts, it is illegal and considered child abuse. They can't forcibly ground a child because if the child resists this grounding and the parent uses physical force to prevent a teen from going to a crack house and prostituting himself/herself out, it is considered child abuse. The courts monitor the behavior of parents with troubled teens by ordering them to put them in psychological counseling, and when that happens all power is removed from the parent and put into the hands of the child, The parents are forced to stand by helplessly, while these doctors drug their child with all forms of drugs that in many cases cause irreversible physical and mental problems in their child, and sometimes even death, because if the parent resists it is considered neglect. Kids today aren't stupid, they are predictable, and will use whatever means necessary to get what they want, because they don't understand what is in their best interest. The problem is that teens are being led to believe they can blame everything on their parents, and are not being held accountable for their own actions, until they commit some horrible atrocity. The parents are told by the government that they are responsible for the conduct of their children, yet they have taken all of the parents power to discipline away, under threats of being incarcerated as their children will be if they are not disciplined, and also under the threat of having their child taken away and put into foster care where they just might really be tormented with abuse. How does a parent win under these rules? The government has taken away the parents power to protect their teen from themselves, teens are children to, they are very influencable, and they are just like little kids when it comes to having their right to be free to do what they want, but most aren't experienced or responsible enough to do or understand what is in their best interest. Now the government is promoting sexual premiscuity in teens with all this gay rights crap, and when a parent attempts to teach their child that sex is not the issue in a relationship, but a loving partnership with wholesome values is, they are threatened by the source with being prosecuted for discrimination. Mark my words, teen pregnancy, abortions, child molestation, and single family households are going to skyrocket in the next generation. That doesn't even touch the fact that violence is often portrayed as cool or in by the motion picture industry, and by many of their highschool peers. Why do you think so many kids idolize gangsters and prison types by wearing their pants down to their knees? They think it is cool. I'll tell you what, if I see a group of teens walking down the street these days, I do everything in my power to avoid them, because they are all unpredictable and more likely to attack me than a group of adults, the biggestfear is that I could be prosecuted for attempting to protect myself if they chose to attack me for no reason other than because they think it is cool and fun. ;-(
    why on earth does that give you reason to hate all teenage girls?





    I think there is something wrong with people called Ted.





    I am saying this in regard to that serial killer Ted Bundy.





    see the problem?





    *edit*





    ';What is wrong with young girls these days.';





    and also





    ';What does everyone think of teenage girls these days? Personally I think there is something wrong with them.?';





    It has nothing to do with their age or gender, it is to do with them being bullies. Just as Ted Bundy is not a murderer because his name is Ted.





    seriously, I thought it was clear enough to begin with!





    trash talk on the web is like angry letters to a tv station-it means nothing in the real world so you cant compare ranting on the internet to the real world behaviour of your youth, people are nothing like they appear online.

    Is there any websites for teenage girl help?

    Hi is there a website were teen girls can go and like ask for advise about image and things like that?Is there any websites for teenage girl help?
    There is a website called gurl.com that I used to go on years ago. It talked about body images and sex and stuff like that. Check it out.Is there any websites for teenage girl help?
    www.hotornot.com
    it called teen helth
    Cosmogirl.com
    Well, what do you want to know?:) Youtube.com do some make up and hair tutorials that are pretty good, helped me!
    seventeen.com


    click on the tab for hair. they have cool ideas and they have ideas for makeup too.


    hope i helped. :)

    Why did America become a teenage wasteland?

    How did we come to this? The moral decay in our society is rampant. The slobification of America will mean the end. All societies eventually crumble under their own weight. It's all downhill from here.Why did America become a teenage wasteland?
    2 reasons....Money and Darwinism.





    The number one reason we lost our moral values is that we became so rich that we could afford it. Through most of human history there was not enough wealth to support irresponsible behavior. If you did drugs, had babies out of wedlock and didn't work then you died. Today we can afford to live that way.





    We also used to believe in God and religion. Today people believe that we are nothing but a bunch of monkeys created by accident and God is a lie. Therefore, there is no real purpose to life. There is no reason to live so you might as well just maximize your hedonistic pleasure. Nothing really matters if there is no God and no after life.Why did America become a teenage wasteland?
    I agree. It saddens me to see how my country has become more and more morally bankrupt over the years.





    We have been giving up ground for years. More and more good is being called evil and evil is being called good.





    We as a society have become numb to the appaling changes that are taking place right here in America, daily.
    Well, aren't you just a ray of sunshine?





    You look for what you expect out of life.





    I see the youth of America being energized by Obama's political campaign.





    I see them going on marathons to help the poor and the sick.





    I see them protesting violence.





    I see them saying, ';We want to learn.';








    I guess my eyes are just better than yours.
    You know, Dear Abby printed a letter, some time back, that complained of the exact same thing.





    Talked about how the youth of today are slobs, have no respect for their elders, talk like morons, etc.





    It was written some two thousand or more years ago by Aristotle!





    We all feel that way about the next generation!
    America is not a teenage wasteland. America is a big shopping mall that emphasizes material possessions = success thus blinding it's own people from the principles and family values that are morally correct.





    Advertising advertises advertising


    - Marshall McLuhan
    Rap music





    Gangsta lifestyle, wiggers, etc.
    'Cause I'm T-N-T !


    I'm dynamite !


    T-N-T !


    Oi Oi Oi !
    What are you talking about?





    It is a Neo-Conservative Hickville!
    Not true teens are teens
    america is fine. you're the one with an issue.
    That's the spirit!
    You're jealous you are no longer a teenager and have to pay bills.


    hmph
    was that a question or a statement?





    I agree, the whole world is a fuccked up place man!

    Which are the incoveniences of teenage years ?

    I have a homework which sounds like this : ';Write a short essay about the inconvenieces of teenage years.';


    Plese help me. I need sugestions.Which are the incoveniences of teenage years ?
    deeling with peer pressure





    being told to be mature and act like an adult but then still being treated like a child





    learning what your boundries are and trying to stick up for your own beleives and ideas while trying to figure them out at the same time





    going to school and still holding a job and other extra activities





    acne :)





    trying to fit in with evreyone around you while dealing with all the changes your body is going through





    relationships











    hope that helpsWhich are the incoveniences of teenage years ?
    depression...and the fact that everyone in high school can drive except the freshmen!
    Just the beginning of seeing what real life is, the peer pressure, worrying too much about what others think,


    wanting to be in the crowd good or bad.


    Griping about what you have to do now, see what it really is like on your own , it will be worse, get a grip...........xx
    1. Being a teenager can be viewed in different ways. You could say it has inconveniences because during these years a person is trying to transition from being a child to becoming an adult. It requires a sense of responsibility that could cause stress to a teenager. What makes it more difficult is that these years are when we discover the meaning of peer pressure or should I say outside opinion.





    2. The teenage years is really the start of the ';worry age'; for these reasons:





    - ready to drive or not


    - have sex or not


    - college ?


    - am I pretty enough?


    - am I over weight?


    - no friends


    - I want nice clothes


    - part time job?


    - am I popular?


    - bad grades?


    - bad hair?


    - is mom right?


    - friends right?


    - boyfriend right?


    - birth control?





    hope this helps you. good luck.
    talk about the ';agonies and ecstasies'; of teen years like what stereotypes teenagers get from other people ya know? also i think you should talk about teen years are the years that we try and figure ourselves out and try and find ourselves :-)





    hope i helped
    What most teanagers are thinking about is what each other is wearing and whether they like them or not, etc. This drags them down so that they cant think about anything else. Its a miracle that they learn anything in school.


    Most teanagers motto is ';dont let your studies interfere with your education';
    Well...homework!


    Acne


    Striving for popularity yet being an individual at the same time
    Not being able to drink


    having to tell your parents everything you do


    still having to have adult supervision on some things like driving.


    not being allowed to look at porn on the internet.

    What are your views on teenage pregnancies?

    Specifically, the case of the 14-year old father and the teenage couple who have twins?What are your views on teenage pregnancies?
    Children should not be having children. That's what I think.What are your views on teenage pregnancies?
    The human body is geared for reproduction after puberty, which occurs in girls as young as ten and in bous as young as twelve.





    If you insert a penis into a vagina then, even with contraception, it is possible that pregnancy will occur. As the Meerkat says -';simples';.





    The problem is , is that society is not geared to deal with teenage pregnancies. There are the conflicting views of the moralists to contend with - religious aspects, for example; the psychologists and their hangers on who call 'repression' when it is argued that urges do not have to be folowed willy-nilly (pun intended).





    By far the worst are the advertisers who promote sexiness even in dolls - hence Bratz (with overtones of delinquency even in the name). The pop music industry also churns out muck that promotes early sexual intercourse.





    Parents buy their offspring the sexy clothes and allow them access to the sleazy media.





    Essentially, we have allowed childhood to be sold and allowed our young people to be forced out of the dolls and toy cars stage too early. All in the interest of someone making money. Parents, too, are all too keen to abrogate their responsibilities by sending their kids out onto the streets almost as soon as they can safely cross the road, in order thatv the parents can have peace to settle back in their imitaionleather armchairs, quaff cheap lager and watch Tricia and her ilk rail on against parental irresponsibilities and teenage pregnancieds
    Teenage pregnancies seem to be the norm but it has nothing to do with lack of sex education but far too much emphasis on it.In this day and age of contraception's and advice there is no need for ';accidents'; so i can only come to the conclusion that it is a premeditated act with no thought of the future.
    Sadly I believe it's the norm in society today. These kids have little education, parents that don't care where they are, what they are doing. They don't understand respect for others, see bunking permanently from school as 'cool' and have the morals of an ally cat!





    I blame the parents, just look at those of Alfie, the fourteen year old dad...all his parents have been concerned about is the money they can make to sell his story. The pictures of him in the press were shocking and had he been my child, I'd be hiding in shame. He can't even understand words like financially' so how on earth can he raise a baby? As it has emerged his sister also had a baby at the same age, so that proves my point that people like this don't deserve children, and are a menace to their sons life.





    With the benefit system so ready to help out teenage mums and dads with housing, giro's ,equipment and support, is it any wonder more and more are choosing babies as an easy way out. With one of the highest rates of teenage pregnancy's in Europe, somewhere we are going seriously wrong and in my view, if parents were forced to support their pregnant teenagers, the rate would drop dramatically.
    if youre having kids before your compulsory education has finished then something has gone wrong





    the US has the highest teenage pregnancy rate in the industrialised world. the UK has the highest rate in europe. just one of many examples of why the UK needs to be less like the US and more like europe





    maybe if we treated kids as kids and not consumers things would improve
    I dont think its infortunate at all, everyone appears in this world for a reason.


    If people want to wear a condom then fine, they dont want a kid..... but if they dont want to wear one, and they want a kid.... then thats their choice, I dont see why its anyones buisness tbh.
    UNNECESSARY.


    Since the shame went out of being a sla**er and having a child while a child the numbers have increased.





    Some people have no shame and no morals.





    When did it become acceptable for kids to have sex?
    I think teenage parents get shunned and looked down upon unnecessarily..Most i know are damn good parents,much better than most 'adult' ones i know.
    Where is their youth in all this and why throw your life away for the sake of a fumbling attempt at sex. I use the term fumbling as I too was once their age.
    Once is an accident, and should be helped in every way.


    Twice is negligence and should be left to the parents to support.
    Parents who, unfortunately, could not control their kids





    thank GOD my parents won't let me have a boyfriend!
    Oops, well, we can't blame the parents anymore, so let's blame videogames (for some reason) and erm...hormones?
    %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;It's a community issue !!!
    Its a waste of their childhoods and then their own kids think its ok to do it. Society spiraling into a pit.
    **** happens. Poor kid.
    Unfortunate,but not the end of the world
    it happens

    What does it mean when teenage girls want attention/love from older men?

    what does it mean? no teenage boys, no women, but older men?What does it mean when teenage girls want attention/love from older men?
    It might mean she had the love and attention from her daddy and she wants it to continue. An older man tends to baby a younger wife. He also enjoys teaching her things he already knows. I don't see that as strange for certain people. Maybe she just loves to be babied.What does it mean when teenage girls want attention/love from older men?
    daddy issues
    I think they view older men as father figures. Perhaps they did not have a father who featured prominently in their lives. Maybe the father left the family when the girl was young. And there may also be a mercenary reason. They see older men as successful and wealthy, the kind that could take care of them.
    that they don't have an adult male to look up to
    she's looking for a father figure.She didn't get love from her own father so she's trying to find it through older men now.
    Usually the girl is trying to make up for her father's absence.


    she is looking for justification and approval from men, and older men have more in common with who her father might have been.


    this can also happen with any age men too though. Just seeking approval from men in general.


    also there are other times when girls want to piss off their parents.. and dating a much older guy is a great way to do that.


    And other times.. it's just who you are exposed to.
    It means she knows the older guy has money cars and has grown up mentally. What they don't know is 15 will get you 20 I hope.
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  • What Is Your Opinion On Teenage Pregnancy?

    What is your honest opinion of girls that get pregnant at a young age?


    What would you do if you child came home pregnant at a young age? Would you encourage an abortion?What Is Your Opinion On Teenage Pregnancy?
    Obviously I don't think it's a good idea to get pregnant at that age. But almost all of it happens accidentally. Most of them were being irresponsible and I think it's not very smart - but mistakes happen.





    If I had a teenager who got pregnant - I would present abortion as an option but wouldn't try to talk them into it or out of it - their choice. I would support them whatever they chose and would help them support the child but they would have to work and study really hard to make things work. Of course I would make sure they knew all about birth control so it hopefully wouldn't happen. Didn't happen to me by a combination of not having sex and using proper contraceptives, so hopefully my kids will learn the same.





    HarrietWhat Is Your Opinion On Teenage Pregnancy?
    Hello, though I am not a young teenager I am 19 and 18 weeks pregnant with my first baby. I see nothing wrong in young women having babies as long and they are ready for the responsibilities, the sleepless nights, no more partying and spending every last dime on their baby. There are some young GIRLS who don't realize that babies are a 24 hr commitment and are not pets...like the ones who think ';hey I want to go out and party with my friends, I'll just leave the baby with my parents'; those girls don't deserve a child. I don't consider abortion a birth control method, so no I would not encourage an abortion, however if it was a flaw in birth control ( condom broke, pill failed) then thats a different story. I am proud to be a young mom. I am in school and my fiance has a great job while in school as well.
    im only still a teenager.. but, my opinion is, things happen.. mistakes happen.. im pro-choice, and i think a woman has her own mind to use to decide whether she wants to keep the baby or not.. when i see a girl pregnant who looks to be very young, i might think negatively for a few seconds about her [im being honest].. but then i think about how if i was in their situation, i wouldnt want people to make side comments about me, or point and stare or call me a slut or whatever.. i think if the girl KNOWS she'll be an unfit mother, she should get an abortion..or give it up for adoption.. no baby should grow up in an unhealthy enviornment
    Teen pregnancy is not a tragedy. Mistakes happen in life. Having a baby when you are a teenager, sure its tough, but your life isn't ruined forever.





    If my teen daughter came home pregnant I'm sure I'd be disappointed initially, but shes my daughter and I love her unconditionally. I would support her and empower her to make her own choices.
    This is a touchy subject for alot of people.... kids are stupid. I had sex before I got out of high school, but I made damn sure I had a rubber. Most guys don't care, until their lives are ruined with a kid! As bad as that is to say.... that moment of fun can ruin the next 15 years of your life! You might not get to go to college, take certain jobs, be a kid!





    I don't necessarily encourage an abortion.... I think if it were some sort of health concern... absolutely, but just because, that's retarded. Adoption is a wonderful thing! Depending on the age, and abortion could be understandable, but that would be some sort of therapy process to ensure your mental stability. Consulting doctors and such. I'm not against abortion, just against the abuse of abortion!





    So, as a young person, I would make damn sure you have protection, and also consider all options before jumping on the abortion bandwagon! You are ending a (potential) life, as well as damaging your body in the process....
    We all know exceptions, but the statistical truth is that a child born to a teenage mother has a probability 700% higher than others of ending up in real poverty.





    With the significant exception of Mary of Nazareth, people don't just ';get pregnant';! It doesn't ';just happen';!





    I made sure that my daughter knew about her body. Anatomy, physiology, hormones, emotions, social influences. I made sure she knew where babies come from. I taught her to respect herself and her capacity to become a mother, so she wasn't so needy of affection that she would allow her body to be used as an entertaining sewer for some pimply goof to dump his load in.





    I pointed out to my daughter how difficult it was for the mother of one of her friends. This woman, scarcely 20 herself and the mother of 3 kids, was trying to get an education so she could get off welfare. It was hard on her, and even harder on the kids. Because I had waited to have children until I had an education and a home, our life was relatively comfortable. The difference between having the money to take a taxi or not isn't much, but it can make a heck of a difference when it's 20 below!





    Once, a friend of my daughters was talking bitterly about how his mother would say to him ';I never wanted you anyway. You were an accident I wish never happened.'; Why should an innocent child suffer if his parents were ';lazy, stupid or religious';? I emphasized to her that both her dad and I wanted and welcomed her even while she was a twinkle! I believe that in itself encouraged her to think of herself as a valuable person, and not someone who would be willing to do just about anything in order to get some shred of imitation affection.





    Even though I am firmly pro-choice (if men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament!), I do not think it is an easy choice for any woman. And as long as we refuse to allow ourselves to be used as an easy hole for some goof to take advantage of, we do not have to face that very difficult choice.
    teen pregnancy is such a terrible tragedy


    yes to abortion


    I had one at 18 and it was the BEST thing I could have done...expensive! but the right thing to do





    people think that adoption is such a great option, but it's not. I'm adopted, but I was lucky. not everyone gets a loving family, or even gets a family!





    when I have kids I will teach them better than what my parents did with me, I will make sure they have every opportunity to be successful, and being a teen mother is NOT that. They will be an MD, have a PHD, masters, or be an officer in the military like my family and myself
    i don't think it's ok-but it happens. i mean we can teach kids as much as we want what can happen when they have sex-that's what we're doing now and there's nothing we can do about what they do. we can't make them listen to us and make them learn. it's something they have to do on their own.


    if my son/daughter came home and told me they were pregnant-i would support them. i would make them take care and be responsible about-while at the same time helping them out.
    i think its not the best time in life to get preggers obviously.


    But its happens,. I would look after my daughter really well and provide for her and her baby with anything(exactly what my mum is doing for me). The child would be my grandchild.


    i would never encourage plan B.





    God Bless xx






    i think its wrong. its dicusting. like does this person think of anything else...don't they know that early pragnecy will ruin theirs and their childs life.





    i would encourage aboration even if i dont like it.








    TEANAGERS NEED TO THINK BEFORe tHEY DO SOMETHING!!
    It is not my life so it is none of my business. If my child comes back pregnant or got someone pregnant i will be there for them any way i can. If they chose abortion then that is completely their own choice.
    Knowing how difficult it is to balance life and kids, anybody that gets pregnant as a teenager pretty much kisses their dreams away.
    Sh*t happens. And no I would not encourage an abortion. I would teach my son/daughter to take care of their responsibilites.
    no you made the choice to have sex the baby don't have a choice


    so many woman want babys and cant have them adoption is a great thing
    It should be avoided


    They would've been better educated on contraception


    Everything I could to help her


    No

    Is it weird for a teenage girl to think older men are hot?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I think Ryan Reynolds is one of the hottest men alive! And he's almost 33, double my age pretty much. And I've seen some other men that are way older than me and I thought they were hotttt. I mean, I like teen guys too, but older guys are just way more attractive to me. And most celebs I think are hot are at least 5 years older than me. Is this a bad thing?Is it weird for a teenage girl to think older men are hot?
    Older man shall be soft , systematic and hot in sex . Double the age seems to be a little awkward.Is it weird for a teenage girl to think older men are hot?
    Nothing wrong with that at all, it just means you have good eyesight! Attraction from younger people for the opposite and same sex for that matter, are very common between the ages of 16 to 21 for people who are up to 35 years of age.





    This is because people are generally still in their hot, attractive years up to the age of 35. After that, it's all downhill for them!
    I did college psychology for some time and:





    i. It is not weird; females are genetically wired to go for strong, successful men, who just happen to be older.


    ii. It is a part of the subconscious culture; for a long time, young girls would be married off to older men.





    And, meh, I think some older females are hot (as long as they aren't like three times of my age). My calculus teacher, for example.





    So there.
    NO


    girl im a teenager


    and i love me some guy berryman the guy frm coldplay





    i go out ad see older men and wish i were there wives


    so no


    there is nothing wrong


    lol





    i find older men with shaved beards and blue eyes hot


    kinda like eddie cahill :P
    its pretty much how ever you feel. my best friend is in love with older men, like olderrrr men, but if its what makes her and you happy whos to judge. just be careful with laws and whatnot till your 18 to make any moves :)
    No. You know why, because I think older guys are hot too ! And im 15 ! Like i searched up ryan reynolds and hell yeah he sexy lol. But i think Blair Underwood is the Sexiest man Alive ! I dont like boys my age. i like older like 2 3 years older
    No, not at all. I think Eminem is hot and he's the same age as my dad. I'm legal though haha.





    And Ryan Reynolds is beautiful. I didn't know he was that old.. hmm.
    if they're famous then its ok cause they go for that anyway, but out of the blue he better be at least 10 years older......it really just depends if your family and friends are willing to accept him is the real problem
    Naah not baddd...


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    not it's not a bad thing at all. I think most girls think older guys are hot. I know I did when I was 16. It's totally normal!
    No.





    I mean most high school guys(myself included) oggle over older girls.





    Your normal/fine.
    its only wierd when the person is older than your grandparents
    No. I'm a 16 year old boy and I think Obama's wife is hot. Jk. She looks like a monkey.
    Nah. I have like, 3 friends like this, but they check out the seniors at my school. They don't have much interest in celebs.
    Normal girl. But keep it to fantasy-life. Older guy can be trouble if they want you for their pleasures.
    nothing wrong with you your just a normal horny *** teenage thats going to end up pregnant and feed off the system.
    Not weird to think, but it's dangerous to go beyond that at your age... for both parties.
    no, it's wrong for older men to think teenage girls are hot, though. ;)
    That is weird
    NO! that's not a bad thing. Older guy's are always hotter.
    I hope not. I'm an old dude and think teens are hot, lol.
    haha you're fine. I'm 15 and I LOVE older men! I have a crush on one of my teacher's at school and he's 32 but he's hot :)
    nope...not weird at all! =)) im 15 and i think he is sexyy!
    nope i think ryan reynolds is hott too! its natural!!
    you have issues stick with guys your own age
    not really..
    nope it's not a bad thing
    not at all uless like like 60 then thts a lil weird
    no its normal