What is the best thing to do when your wife is beating your teenage daughter?

Sometimes the teenager is at fault sometimes not. It is typical asian mentallatiy to control girls.What is the best thing to do when your wife is beating your teenage daughter?
Call your wife's mother to come and beat herWhat is the best thing to do when your wife is beating your teenage daughter?
';Sometimes the teenager is at fault sometimes not.';





I notice that you didn't just say ';spanking'; but actually said ';beating';. This is never right. I don't care how sassy the teenager is, she is not the cause of your wife's anger management problem. You can be held legally (criminally) responsible for knowing about and not preventing abuse. If your daughter is in imminent danger, get her out of there immediately. If this happens infrequently but is still serious and you think your wife can be reformed, get your family in counseling immediately. Also, take parenting classes together (check your local hospital, community colleges, etc. for such classes).
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Both of you can take parenting classes.A teen is too old to be hit..Be careful if she get any marks she can be taken away and but into foster care and both of you will be charged with abuse.


YOu may try a therapist-also think why is your child being beaten what is your teen doing that is sooo wrong..


Teenagers need to make their own decisions but they will have to live with that decision.. The punishment they get is when they make a mistake and they have to face it.Parents are guiders not controllers- they advise and love their child- they are learning about how the world works. So tell her to back off-the worse thing could happen is she can run away and you will not see her again.


If you wife hits your daughter or tries-stop it immediately. Speak to your wife not to do that - you guys can talk-talk about what is going on..Go to a professional- you are just as responsible for your daughter no different-even if she is female...


Be proactive and do something about it someone might get real hurt..
Talk to ur wife. Its easier to talk to ur daughter, but teenagers often forget, n sometimes just them being their age is enough. U really do need to sit ur wife down and talk to her or go to counseling. Beating isn't beneficial for anyone, not for u, or ur ';girls';. UR wife might be satisfied with taking out her anger, n might not care if her daughter despises her then, but later, she'll come to regret it, n it might be too late for a reconciliation. IF all else fails though, leave. But before doing so, u do need to get other family memebers involved(some who ur wife will listen to). I know she might've grown up this way n that's all she's passing on to her child, but if she examines her concience thorughyl then she'll realize what damage her parents did to her psyche, n stop, if she loves her child. But for all this to come out, she needs to be open to spill her guts, n letting an outside party in might be the best way to facilitate that.
there is a fine line between discipline and straight up beating/abuse. your wife may have anger issues that she is taking out on your teenaged daughter. you have the right to confront her about it if she has crossed the line, and warn her that you will take action. if u dont and she goes to school, and tells a teacher, or someone sees a bruise you are risking losing all of your children. you will probably be charged too for not doing anything. once you get a social services charge like that on you getting employment or etc can be very hard.
Call the cops, kick her out, get a restraining order against her for child and yourself and then file for full custody and divorce. No child should ever be beaten no matter what reason. Remember though spanking is not considered abuse unless it leaves a mark for 24hrs or more.
Take your daughter and leave. Call the police and turn your wife in for abuse, get a restraining order and file for full custody and limited if any visitation.





It doesn't matter what the child did, there is NEVER and excuse for abuse.
I'd say you need to talk to you wife and tell her she needs to stop or else the police will get involved. Also talk to your daughter and tell her that it doesnt help things when she acts up. I'd also suggest conseling for both.
when she is beating her pull her off of her I realize it is a forien custom but in this country it is child abuse.If your wife does it to your daughter the chances are she will do it to her daughter.it will be a never ending cycle
If it is always completely typical, then you wouldn't be on here asking for help.





You need to leave and get your daughter somewhere where she is safe. It is never okay to think it's alright for your child to be in pain.
Sit her down and explain that there are other options. Your daughter deserves to have someone stand up for her. . . Beating is never the best discipline. Maybe try counseling? Good luck!
If my wife were beating my child (daughter or son), she'd be kicked out of the door. Allowing her to do so is permitting assault and YOU become responsible.
well where i live if that is happening and you are an adult who is not reporting the crime--you are just as much guilty as the mother. shame on you. stop the abuse now!!!
Pull her back and talk some sense into your wife.
defend your daughter is shes really getting hurt or talk some sense to your crazy wife!
Leave her!!!!!!!